In the midst of naviagting my late teens and twenties, I believed the healing of my childhood meant engaging with what I could do with my earned money: collecting.
I now say as a joke, a collector is really a hoarder who wants to come to terms with how collecting serves the collector.
When the term arrested development came a public term, maybe through the TV show?, it was a new use of language to focus through.
Suncoast Era, Gen X, and the Losses We Felt in the Seventies and Eighties